[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":134},["ShallowReactive",2],{"article-present-en":3},{"article":4,"related":118},{"metaTitle":5,"metaDescription":6,"h1":7,"updated":8,"byLine":9,"intro":10,"sections":11,"faqHeading":99,"faq":100,"lyselaHeading":113,"lyselaParagraph":114,"tryCta":115,"pricingCta":116,"relatedHeading":117},"Wedding gift ideas for a Swedish wedding","What to give as a wedding gift in Sweden? Check the couple's wedding website first. Ideas by type, how to think about money and wording for the card.","Wedding gift ideas: what to give at a Swedish wedding","Updated {date}","Written by","Look at the couple's wedding website or invitation first. Most couples say there what they would like, whether it is an item, an experience or money towards the honeymoon, and then you do not need to guess. If nothing is written, a gift for the home, a contribution to the trip or a joint gift from several guests is the safest choice. Here are gift ideas by type, how to think about money, wording for the card and a message you can send to a group.",[12,17,49,55,72,89],{"heading":13,"paragraphs":14},"What should you give? Start with the couple",[15,16],"Read the invitation and the wedding website first. A gift list, a Swish number or a line saying that having you there is enough is often written there. Follow it, because it is what the couple asked for. If you find nothing, ask a friend or parent of the couple, or the toastmaster, who often knows.","If you give something outside the list, pick things that can be used: something for the kitchen, the bedroom or an evening together. A gift that says something about the two of them is lovely, but one that needs space or upkeep can become a burden.",{"heading":18,"table":19},"Wedding gift ideas by type",{"headers":20,"rows":24},[21,22,23],"Type","Examples","Suits when",[25,29,33,37,41,45],[26,27,28],"An item from the list","What the couple chose, in the price range you want to give","There is a list. It is your safest choice.",[30,31,32],"Money","By Swish or in an envelope, with a line on what it is for","The couple has said they would like money, or have all they need.",[34,35,36],"An experience","Dinner at a restaurant, a weekend away, concert tickets","The couple has a full home. Ask if it suits their dates.",[38,39,40],"A gift for the trip","A contribution to the honeymoon, or something that goes with the trip","The couple has mentioned they are going away.",[42,43,44],"Something homemade or personal","A photo album, a framed picture from your first meeting, a recipe in a small book","You know the couple well.",[46,47,48],"A joint gift","Several guests chip in for something larger or an experience","Colleagues, friends or siblings who want to give more.",{"heading":50,"paragraphs":51},"Wedding gift money: how to think about the amount",[52,53,54],"There is no right amount that applies to everyone, and nothing the couple expects. Think about three things: how close you are to the couple, whether you come alone or with a partner (then one gift from both of you is enough), and what you can afford without it feeling heavy.","People close to the couple often give more than someone who comes as a colleague or neighbour, but that is a feeling, not a rule. If you are unsure, ask someone in your circle what they plan to give, or choose the price range you would pick for a close friend's birthday and go from there. The couple remembers that you were there, not how much you gave.","Read what the couple write. Some name a goal, such as the trip, and then you can put it on the card. How couples ask for money is covered in the [guide to cash gifts](pengagava).",{"heading":56,"items":57},"Fun ways to give money, experiences and a gift for the trip",[58,61,64,67,70],{"title":59,"body":60},"Money as a trip in pieces","Split the gift on the card: \"a dinner in Rome\", \"breakfast at the hotel\". The couple gets a greeting to remember, not just a number.",{"title":62,"body":63},"An envelope with a task","Put the money in an envelope the couple opens at a set place on the trip, with a note on what it is for.",{"title":65,"body":66},"Money towards one shared thing","The money goes to something the couple wants, such as a sofa or garden furniture, and you write on the card what it is.",{"title":68,"body":69},"The experience as a gift","A restaurant dinner or a weekend the couple picks the time for. Ask whether it suits before you book.",{"title":38,"body":71},"A contribution to the honeymoon, or something practical to take along, such as a small travel guide.",{"heading":73,"paragraphs":74,"examples":76},"The card and the group gift: wording to borrow",[75],"A card makes the gift personal, even when it is money. Replace whatever is in square brackets. More wording is in the [guide to wedding cards](kort).",[77,80,83,86],{"label":78,"text":79},"Card to the couple, money","To [name] and [name]. Congratulations on your wedding. The money is for [the trip or something you wish for]. Thank you for a lovely day.\n[your name]",{"label":81,"text":82},"Card, item from the list","Congratulations, [name] and [name]. I hope [the gift] comes in useful in your new home.\n[your name]",{"label":84,"text":85},"Card, experience","A dinner for two at [restaurant], whenever suits you. Get in touch and we will book it together.\n[your name]",{"label":87,"text":88},"Message to the group","Hi, we have been invited to [name] and [name]'s wedding. Would you like to chip in for a joint gift? Suggestion: [gift], roughly [amount] each. Reply by [date] and I will collect by Swish.\n[your name]",{"heading":90,"paragraphs":91,"image":94},"Where a guest finds the couple's wishes on the wedding website",[92,93],"A Lysela wedding website has a section called Wish list. It shows the couple's text and, from Plus, a Swish QR code filled in with their number and message, so you only type the amount. No money passes through Lysela. See how it looks on the [example pages](examples).","If you are the couple, the [guide to gift lists](onskelista) helps with the wording, and a [thank-you card](tackkort) is a good way to say thanks afterwards.",{"src":95,"alt":96,"width":97,"height":98},"\u002Fguide-bilder\u002Fpresent.en.webp","The wish list on Klara & Hampus's wedding website: a Swish QR code, a line about the gift and the number below.",520,1067,"Frequently asked questions",[101,104,107,110],{"question":102,"answer":103},"What do you give as a wedding gift if there is no list?","Something that can be used at home, a contribution to the honeymoon or an experience the couple can book themselves. Ask a friend of the couple if you are unsure.",{"question":105,"answer":106},"How much money should you give as a wedding gift?","There is no amount that applies to everyone. Think about how close you are to the couple, whether you come alone or as two, and what you can afford. The couple appreciates that you came.",{"question":108,"answer":109},"Is it fine to give money?","Yes, especially if the couple have said they would like it. Say on the card what the money is for.",{"question":111,"answer":112},"Do you have to give a gift if you are invited?","No. Coming is what matters most, and many couples say so themselves. A card with a few lines is always welcome.","Guests read the wishes on the wedding website","From Plus, a Lysela wedding website has a section called Wish list, with the couple's own text and a Swish QR code, so guests do not have to ask for the number and only type the amount. The site has no list where guests mark what they have taken, so if you want to buy an item, ask the couple or check their shop list.","Try it yourself, no account needed","See all prices","Also read",[119,122,125,128,131],{"href":120,"label":121},"\u002Fen\u002Fwedding-website","What should a wedding website include? 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